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What Happens If You Don’t Have Loving Parents?

What Does Your Heart Say?  from Janice Taylor, Anti-Gravity Coach, Positarian, Author, Artist

What Does Your Heart Say? from Janice Taylor, Anti-Gravity Coach, Positarian, Author, Artist

If you don’t have loving parents, then you had better learn to be a loving parent to yourself. ~ Anonymous

Life is about love. Plain n’ simple! Love is the foundation of self-esteem. It is love that heals.

Loving yourself doesn’t mean that you have to love every single thought you have or action you take (or don’t take); nor does it mean that you have to be perfect.

It means that you acknowledge that within you–at your core–lives a light. It is a light that translates to peace, wholeness, joy, goodness, innate worth and good feelings.

Our goal is to tap into our inner light, connect it to our present consciousness and feel the light and love, and live in that light and love.

The best way to accomplish this is to speak kindly to our Inner-Child. To communicate with our Inner-Child in a kind, compassionate and loving manner.

The Inner-Child, also known as the “Divine Child” by Carl Jung, the “Wonder Child” by Emmet Fox, and the “Child Within” by Charles Whitfield, is the emotional self. It is where our feelings live.

When we are playful and creative; when we allow our intuitive juices to flow, we know deep within us that our Divine Child is being welcomed and encouraged to be present.

Imagine what that feels like to be welcomed and encouraged to be present. Give yourself the gift of love. Practice positive self-talk.

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Spread the Word-–NOT the icing!

Janice Taylor, Life and Wellness Coach
Weight Loss Expert, Author, Artist, Positarian
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Kick in the Tush Tuesday: Are You a Food Victim?

"Your gain is my pain. Call me."  ~  Janice Taylor,  Anti-Gravity Coach, Helping You to Rise Above and Go Beyond (self-Imposed) Limitations

“Your gain is my pain. Call me.” ~ Janice Taylor, Anti-Gravity Coach, Helping You to Rise Above and Go Beyond (self-Imposed) Limitations

Definition of a victim:  a person to whom life happens. ~ Peter McWilliams

Are You a Food Victim???  I hesitate to use the word “victim,” because it is such a strong word. But I’ve just got to ask … are you? a food victim? no? are you sure???

If you think that something or someone other than yourself is controlling your food choices and/or controlling your eating …

… Then, you are a food victim!

If you believe that certain foods are simply irresistible, as in impossible to resist, no way, can’t say “no” to that or that or even that, or that the Universe is conspiring against you, sabotaging your healthy living attempts at every turn on the road to Sveltesville, and that external circumstances hold power over you …

… Then, you are a food victim!

In order for your permanent weight removal project to be fully, entirely and wholly (or holy) successful, then you must step away from and move out of “food victim mode.”

You may not realize that you have stepped into the victim role and have embraced it as fully as you have, but if you are not taking full responsibility, if you are not exercising your ability to create a healthy lifestyle; if you  are allowing life to lead you down the path to donuts and other “deadly delights,” then you have taken on this ineffectual and hopeless identity.

Ask yourself … “Just how much of a ‘food victim’ am I?”

“We focus on the negatives, losing ourselves in the problem. We point to our unhappy circumstances to rationalize our negative feelings.  This is the easy way out.  It takes, after all, very little effort to feel victimized.” ~ Elizabeth Kubler-Ross

No doubt fully embracing a healthy lifestyle takes time and effort. And true that you have a ridiculous amount of things to do, which you miraculously manage to squeeze into each and every day.  And true that there are only 24 hours in the day. But, but … BIG BUTT … bottom line, if you want to lose those extra pounds (and not find them again); if you want to be healthy, then you need to take responsibility.

Make ADJUSTMENTS!

1.  Adjust your expectations. In other words, get real – there are no quick fixes in life; no “diet fairy” that is going to visit you in the middle of the night and scoop your pounds away.

2.  The more you pay attention to and adjust your thoughts, your beliefs and your language, the more successful you will be.

3.  Actions follow thoughts. The more negative your thoughts, the more belief systems that are in place that no longer work for you, the less likely you are to take the steps you need to move forward in weight loss or any other area in life. Pay attention to the words you speak as well as your inner language.

4.  It’s UP to You! The power is in your hands (literally), not in the food. No one else determines your choices, your priorities, or your values.

5.  You can make the “best choice.” Perhaps, not the ideal or perfect choice sits in front of you, but a “best” choice does. Even if you have to pick the lesser of two evils, you have a better choice in front of you.

Watch the CHANGE!  Let go of your “food victim” identity, exercise your Best Choice Muscle and watch the change.  You may not have complete control over your circumstances, over your daily happenings, but you do have a choice as to how you respond.

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Spread the Word-–NOT the icing!

Janice Taylor, Life and Wellness Coach
Weight Loss Expert, Author, Artist, Positarian
——————————————————————————-
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#Puzzled? No Need to Shoot!

No need to shootAs you click through this week’s Get Jiggy Weight Loss JigSaw Puzzle, “No Need to Shoot,” remember:  No matter what dietary transgression may have taken place, no matter what the scales of injustice are registering, there’s no need to shot. 

As Our Lady of Weight Loss, the patron saint of permanent fat removal loves to say, “All is forgiven, move on!”

Clicking burns calories.
This week’s puzzle – No Need to Shoot.Send this week’s e-card to a friend!

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Spread the Word-–NOT the icing!

Janice Taylor, Life and Wellness Coach
Weight Loss Expert, Author, Artist, Positarian
——————————————————————————-
For the best life, wellness and weight loss wisdom,
visit Janice: Our Lady of Weight Loss
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Prickly Prayer: Dear Our Lady of the Hair Trigger?

smile therapyThis morning,  while thumbing through a copy of Our Lady of Weight Loss:  Miraculous and Motivational Musings from the Patron Saint of Permanent Fat Removal, I came across a Prickly Prayer that hit the trigger spot, so to speak.   It was a good reminder and reading it gave me the anti-trigger boost that I needed!

I’d like to share it with you.  Here goes!!!

Prickly Prayer

Dear Our Lady of the Hair Trigger,

May that tired old tape that plays in my head–
the one that triggers me into a mindless pursuit
of chips, chocolate and other sinner’s delights,
be permanently erased!

And replaced by a soft, gentle breeze
that whispers
“luscious fruit.”

Amen

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Spread the Word-–NOT the icing!

Janice Taylor, Life and Wellness Coach
Weight Loss Expert, Author, Artist, Positarian
——————————————————————————-
For the best life, wellness and weight loss wisdom,
visit Janice: Our Lady of Weight Loss
Sign up for the Kick in the Tush Club newsletter!

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