Make Your Relationship Work

There are songs about it, jokes about it, entire movies centered around it: a guy trying to date a woman and being consistently blocked by her “best” “friend”.  Unfortunately, unlike the movies, usually the friend in question isn’t some horrible harpy but somebody who sincerely means well and just is tripping up.  Furthermore, everybody does…

Recently I was asked for my “philosophy of dating”. It took me a while to stop laughing. I mean seriously, a philosophy of dating? That’s one of the funniest things I’ve heard in a while. But the person persisted and I thought about it for a while. Finally I came up with this, “things are…

Yeah, the hype is getting serious now. Adverts, V-day specials, frantic shuffling of plans and the inevitable irritation of it all. We start to think, “Why bother?” It is a made up thing anyway, to sell cards and roses and sentimentally tacky stuffed animals. It puts pressure, sometimes bad pressure, on a relationship and makes…

Various things I have learned about my wife and women in general. These are things you shouldn’t say or do. I learned some of this the hard way, hopefully you won’t. I’ve been married for several years to my wonderful wife. Before marriage, I had dated and had relationships before and trying to share some…

Dogs are probably the single most beloved animal on the planet. Well, arguably pandas are a tie, but who wants a pet panda? Besides, owning a panda isn’t nearly as fun as owning a dog, because a dog can actually get you a date. How? Like this: Dogs Force You To Get Out More One…

Life fluctuates, there are good days, bad days, and in-between days. Some days a the feeling of invincibility comes over us, when it seems everything is going your ways. Other times the world decides it’s time to whoop our ass, as if we were a crook who ran away from the NYPD. This fluctuation is…

It’s a time-tested and well-worn fable that most women are just floating through life innocently and happily being saints and perfect people until some man comes in and ruins it all. That man can be her father, a boyfriend, a husband, a dog, etc. Basically, she’s great until he shows up. Whoever he is. While…

Handling rejection is the most difficult aspect to dating. One of the reasons men and women hesitate from approaching is their own fear being rejected. Approaching a woman lays on the shoulder of us men, and having a woman tell us “no’ is a huge reason why we suffer from approach anxiety. It’s also the…

Last week, I woke up to a missed phone call from a friend of mine. Now, I wake up at 6am and generally go to sleep around midnight, which means that this call either came in during booty call hours or “something bad happened” hours. I knew immediately that given who it was, she must…

Valentine’s Day is often a day that single people loathe. It’s a non-stop red-and-pink reminder that you are single. I understand this. I know women who send themselves flowers at work just so people don’t realize that they’re alone. Again, I understand. But the truth is, being single on Valentine’s Day really isn’t that bad.…

Alex Wise
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Alex Wise

Welcome to my blog.

I’m Alex. I’m just a normal guy like any other guy. But what makes me different, is what makes you want to keep your eye out for my blog.

I’ve been studying social dynamics and personal development for the last 15 years. I’ve helped men in meeting women. I’ve helped men reaching their goals in life and I’ve helped myself develop the lifestyle that I want.
You can learn all that and draw from my experience through my blog.

Why should you read this blog?
The goal is simply giving you the tools and knowledge in how you can change your life and create the lifestyle that you want.
Do you want to improve your dating life?
Do you have goals you don’t know how to reach?
Do you feel that your life is boring and feel stuck?
I will share my years of experience and knowledge in exactly those areas. Areas in the past which I had trouble with too.

However I’ve found the key to solving those problems and I’m sharing it all here, so you don’t have to go through years of trial and error like me.

What is lifestyle development?
Lifestyle development deals with every area of your life whether it’s being relationships, finances, health or personal growth. The blog’s aim is to help you create the amazing lifestyle that you want. Through my blog you will be able to follow my experiences and lessons. Articles and videos aimed to educate and motivate you into taking the necessary steps in getting the life you deserve.

I am also a freelance editor and writer for Loveawake.com dating site.

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