*This was my most popular article to date…how to get over anyone or anything!* “I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken — and I’d rather remember it as it…

*My most popular writings to date was a series of articles I did on relationships: how to find that special someone, how to BE that special someone; how to understand how men think, and how women think, and how to get over it when things don’t work out. This is part 1!*   “If two…

Question submitted via Formspring.me: “Hi Dave, do you have any advice on controlling moods. Today was a kinda off day for me. A guy was trying to flirt with me at the grocery store, and I completely blew him off. He said hi and smiled at me, I said hi back in a not so…

Question submitted via Formspring “I stay with him because I’m afraid of being alone, but what can I do?” I have gone on record many time before saying that it is better to be alone, then to be with the wrong person. In my coaching work I hear all kinds of excuses for staying in…

*This is a question I answered some time ago, but the answer still applies to some one out there….* Question submitted via Formspring.me “How do I get over the hurt feelings of having been beaten by my boyfriend of 6 years who was my supposed to be my best friend for 11 years???” -batteredfornow If he…

(Unedited) Questions submitted via Formspring: “Been dating this man who has been living with me for 8 months. One minute he is talking about the future with me & next he is saying he is not in love with me and he just wants to be my friend. We still kiss, hug & hold hands. What…

Question submitted via formspring: “I recently had my boyfriend say to me that he loves me, but he’s not in love with me. What message is he trying to tell me?” The message is nothing good. Guys (and girls) say this when they don’t want to commit to long term. They may say things like…

*This is one of my most popular articles to date, (and was a big reason why I won the Next Beliefnet Featured Blogger contest!) I am reposting it here for everyone who hasn’t seen it…or needs to see it again! Question submitted via Formspring:  “When is the right time to get married? What’s the purpose of…

In the short video below, you’ll hear a wonderful story about a man named Steve, and the massive amount of rejection he endured on his way to changing the world [bcvideo vid=”826099296001″ pid=”96582452001″ height=”410″ width=”480″] It’s true that no one *enjoys* being shot down, but some of us are far more resilient than others. Avoiding…

Question submitted via Formspring: “How do we deal with people who are lying to us? And still be positive about it when we know that they are fooling us. Thanks Dave” The first question is: how do you KNOW they are lying to you? Is it something you can prove, like they tell you they…

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