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Q&A: How can I be confident without seeming arrogant?
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B. Dave Walters
Question submitted via Formspring: “How can one be assertive and self-confident without seeming imposing or “better-than-thou”. Likewise how can one be humble and reserved without seeming weak or insecure?” An excellent question! Just today a friend asked me if it was better to seem confident bordering on arrogant in job interviews, since he was concerned that…
Q&A: ‘I thought he was the one, but now I’m not so sure….’
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B. Dave Walters
Question submitted via Formspring: “Things started out so great. I thought I found “the one”. Now he is nice half the time, and angry the other half. I feel like I walk on eggshells. I don’t want to leave because I know how much I would miss him but I don’t want to be yelled at…
Q&A: How to know when they are not interested
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B. Dave Walters
Question submitted via Formspring: “She was really pissed that day and when I was going to propose to her. She said she doesn’t want to hear from me anymore. She thinks I’m a like a brother and friend and nothing more. Her relatives are about to beat me up. But i want to continue badly.”…
Q&A: How to learn emotional self-defense
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B. Dave Walters
Question submitted via Formspring: “How can I be less sensitive? It seems that every little thing that people say or do upsets me. Everyone says I am just ‘too sensitive’, but I don’t know what to do. Help!” The simple answer is: Being ‘too sensitive’ isn’t the problem; taking things too personally is the problem.…
Q&A: How to find happiness and feel real love
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B. Dave Walters
In my coaching work, the number one question I get is: How can I be happy? Inevitably, the second question is: How can I find true love? A common mistake people make is believing that the solution to their problems lies outside of themselves. Or, that the circumstances going on around them is the cause…
Q&A: Dating advice for a 27-year-old virgin
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B. Dave Walters
Question submitted via Formspring: “I’m a 27 years old guy and have never dated and never had a girlfriend. I have been attracted to different girls throughout the years but when I expressed my interest to them they have always rejected me. I’m now wandering what is it with me? Thanks.” We talked about this in…
Q&A: ‘Should I cheat on them to get even?’
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B. Dave Walters
Question submitted via Formspring: “I caught my wife cheating on me. From what I know, it was only once, and she is sorry. To remedy our marriage, she has given me permission to have sex with another woman of my choice. This is very tempting, but I’m afraid it will only make things worse.”…
Q&A: “My husband cheated 5 times…why did I stay?”
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B. Dave Walters
Question submitted via Formspring “I have been with a man who had at least five affairs during our 27 years or marriage, and even spent 7 years with the same woman. What makes a man do this? What made me accept it for so long? I am trying to move on now; God help me!” We…
Q&A: ‘Should I still talk to my ex for the sake of the kids?’
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B. Dave Walters
Question submitted via Formspring: “Do I really need to communicate to my ex-husband for sake of my daughter? The problem is I am the one who always makes the first move, which is annoying me; so I decided to stop. Is this the right thing to do?” The simple answer is: yes, you should keep…
Q&A: “He wants his space, but I don’t want to lose him….”
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B. Dave Walters
Question submitted via Formspring: “I have been in a long distance relationship since January; I’ve had an amazing time and he was the best thing in my life. But, he’s said he wants to tone it down; feelings have changed and he wants to ‘see the world’. I don’t want to lose him, what should…
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