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Chronic Illness and Pain: Letting Your Guard Down

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Maureen Pratt Author PicI’ve had to increase the dosage of the immunosuppressive drug I’m taking for my lupus and anti-retinal antibodies. This makes me even more susceptible to infections – at a time when the flu season is just kicking into high gear!

About now, too, I’m getting very weary of fending off potential infection. Tired of telling people, “If you have a cold or feel you’re getting one, please let me know so that I don’t come over/get close,” or waiting for the next elevator, one without the rhumy child in his or her mother’s arms, or pulling out the hand wipes continuously during an outing.

Yes, it is tempting to think, “Oh, just this once…”

Yet, the consequences of “Just this once…” gone wrong could be rather catastrophic.

I have great faith that God will take care of me, no matter what. But I also know that I have to do my part. As tempting as it is to let my guard down, I truly want to do what I can to avoid complications, especially at a time when they could be more seriously complicated than at others.

So, every now and then, I have to steel myself and remind myself why I’m doing what I’m doing. I weigh the potential consequences, and then, re-fortified, forge ahead with guard up.

If you’re struggling with the same thing, please know I keep you in my prayers. Temptations come in all shapes and sizes, and the urge to let our guard down can be enormous! Hang tough, my friend!  We’re in this, and we’ll get through this together and strong!

Blessings,

Maureen

TLC Tuesday: Award Yourself!

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Image courtesy of bigjom/FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Here in Southern California, the awards season is winding down. For the past few months, a crescendo of award ceremonies, large and small, has built up to last  Sunday night’s festivities, and I think that, at least for now, all will be calmer for not having “And the winner is…” around every corner!

But, wait! There’s one more person who needs to be recognized!

You!  Yes, you!

If you work hard, live with chronic pain or illness, try your best to help others, strive to live a good life, and take and meet your responsibilities seriously – you deserve an award!

True, no one’s going to pop onto your front porch with fanfare and a statuette.  But, all too often, we don’t appreciate the stellar achievements made through daily living.

And, if we don’t appreciate them, we’ll soon feel weighed down and doubtful of our own, good, God-given worth!

So, today, appreciate the goodness inside of you and the remarkable things you do each day – for yourself and others in the world around you.

If you’re a parent, reflect on your hard and oh-so-important work and let gratitude overtake fatigue.

If you live with a chronic health condition, stop, rest, and appreciate the nurturing things you do to take care of your precious life, no matter how challenging your health is.

If you simply strive to do well at your job and live peaceably with others – today is your day, too.

The world can probably do without another big-budget movie or over-the-top gala.

But your world is dependent on you and your goodness and hard work.

Yes, today is your day!

Peace,

Maureen

Food for Thought: Sifting through All That Info!

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Maureen Pratt Author PicWhen you’re diagnosed with a chronic illness especially one that is very serious and affects many aspects of your life, you might feel overwhelmed by the amount and variety of information available to you. The moment you leave the doctor’s office, your head might start spinning with what he or she told you and the further questions you have. By the time you get home, confusion, muddy and murky, might set in, so you start making phone calls, looking at books, and, of course, consulting the Internet. There, oh, my! Far from clarity, you might find even deeper, unfathomable waters!

Sifting through all the information available through these and other venues can be more than a full-time job. And if you are troubled, sad, or otherwise negatively impacted emotionally by the diagnosis (which is completely natural), along with your quest for understanding might be more than a dollop of frantic hope that somewhere, somehow, you’ll be able to get a quick cure and all will be well again.

“Back in the day,” salespeople traveled around the country selling elixers, potions and lotions and other alleged balms, most of which did not work and many of which did harm instead of good. Today, you might not have someone knocking at your door, but there are plenty of ill-advised avenues on the ‘Web and elsewhere. Some things never change!

Beyond the hype and above all the noise of conflicting information, here are some things I’ve found helpful:

o  Your primary doctor is your primary source of treatment and information. He or she knows your health history best and is in the best position to guide you. Trust your doctor as your primary source for guidance and, certainly treatment or, if your medical condition is best treated by a specialist, work with that doctor, too, and facilitate communication between him or her and your primary doc.

o  Write down all of your questions and take them into your doctor. Schedule an “information” appointment, if need be, and bring a tape recorder or a friend so that you can revisit what your doc says. Ask your doctor what he or she thinks is the most credible source of additional information (a patient advocacy group, for example, or a book)

o When you tell your physician about any medications you are taking, include everything, including any dietary supplements or over-the-counter medication. This is crucial to your doctor’s ability to effectively evaluate and treat your condition.

o  Understand that there is still much that medical science hasn’t figured out, and sometimes, your doctor might tell you he or she doesn’t know how long your symptoms will last or why they came up in the first place. Continue to touch base with your doctor about anything new that has developed in the realm of treatments and/or other considerations regarding your illness – for many diseases, research has only just begun!

o  Be honest about how you contribute to your overall health. If exercise, diet, weight management, and other considerations figure into effective treatment or maintenance living with your illness, you are the person who has to take responsibility for following the guidelines and instructions given to you by your doctor, physical therapist, or other medical professional.

Peace,

Maureen

A Praying Spirit: From the General to the Specific

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Photo courtesy of Gualberto107/FreeDigitalPhotos.net

If you are rushed, tired, angry, or in great pain when you pray, you might find that your prayers are more general than specific. For example, “Please, Lord, take away my pain,” or “Please help all those who are suffering.”

It’s good to place all our petitions to God in prayer, but even more effective to move from the general to the specific – when we pray and when we meditate on the feelings and meanings behind those prayers.

If we accept our lives and our physical conditions as our burdens and crosses to bear, what pain do we want the Lord to take away? The emotional pain of physically hurting? The twinges in our hinges?

If we have true compassion for people, especially those less fortunate or more ill than we are, what kind of help do we want the Lord to impart? Greater strength of will and hope? Tangible relief from poverty, hunger, and violence?

Once we better define our prayers, we can gain more insight into our spirits and character, as well as communicate more clearly with Our Lord. Of course, He knows what’s in our hearts before we even speak. But it’s good for us to clarify ourselves anyway – to shape us more firmly into the kind of loving people we are meant to be!

Blessings,

Maureen

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