Have you gone on a date and returned home disappointed because you made a mistake?

A very important part of dating is to practice the so called dating etiquette. Looking at the term itself, dating etiquette is like a guide to the norms of dating which you must practice. It is very crucial in ensuring that you are able to give your date the best impression about yourself and find the possibility of finding a soulmate.

Going on a date, there are certain rules to follow and correct behavior to portray. Nevertheless, it is important that you get to establish your real identity to your date. You should not try to look cool nor portray a different person just because you want to impress your date.

One of the first concerns of dating is how you dress up. Basically, there are no specific rules to follow since your dress may vary depending to your meeting place. One thing we all recognize as important is that you must look nice when you go on a date. Saying that you don’t care what your date may think about you simply implies that you are not fit to meet that person. After all, this is a date and your primary aim is to let the other individual see how great your personality is.

Another common pitfall among men is their inefficiency to act gentle. A simple gesture of opening the car door and all other doors for your date will earn you additional dating points. You must also pull the chair for your woman and hold her hand when crossing the street.  Women, on the other hand should be  careful with the way they speak. Science has it that on a single day a woman speaks 5000 words on an average while men speaks around 3000 words. This means that you are always prone to embarrassing your dates just by saying the wrong words.

Certainly, the issue of being gentle may vary for each case. Taken for example, if you are dating a feminist, then you must allow her to open the door and do things by herself. It will make her uncomfortable if you do these things the other way around. A woman also may need to be a little humorous especially if she is dating a man who is known to have great sense of humor. Being quiet and speaking fewer words will only make the man feel bored and may even make the date short where finding a soulmate in the scenario is no longer possible.

Another thing you must be careful of is – when it comes to paying of bills. While most women prefer you to pay the bill by yourself, independent women prefer to take their share in paying the bill. You should not also take your date to a place you cannot afford as it may end up with you asking your date for money to cover the bill. As they always say it, keep it simple yet memorable.

Finally, an important dating etiquette is on how to establish the conversation. It is very crucial that you don’t make it appear as if it is an interview on the other person’s part. It maybe customary to ask questions since you want to know more about the person you are dating with. Nevertheless, asking too many questions may scare them off and leave a bad impression about you.

 Always remember that you must act in consonance with the norms of dating. You may also want to select a place where the atmosphere is comfortable as this may help you and your partner behave appropriately and enjoy the moment. Understand more about dating etiquette and you will surely make your next date a truly remarkable one which can lead you to finding a soulmate, your “One.”

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