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Fulfilling Relationships

posted by The MEGA Coach

dating blindCommon story – a friend called as he was in a tough situation with his girlfriend.  Although he is a good and caring person, he couldn’t create and enjoy harmony, intimacy, fulfillment and true communication with his partner – even though he really wanted to. 

Men and women have different ways to communicate.  Even with good intentions, the end results can be painful.

In this case, my friend did not know his partners love languages and most importantly their ranking.  A persons love language and their ranking determines their fulfillment, satisfaction and feeling loved.  By the way, he also did not know his own love language.  It can be pretty interesting when someone thinks they know either their own love languages and ranking.  Your thoughts and life can be quite different experiences at times.

People have different styles of communicating and letting each other know that we care.  “The 5 Love Languages” is a wonderful book by Gary Chapman.

During the early days of our relationship, this book and information helped my wife and I develop a successful and loving way to communicate.  We could transcend life’s challenges.  We were able to listen to each other in a caring way and share our feelings without hurting or attacking the other person.  We developed new strategies to communicate the difficult feelings and share them in a way that works.  We continue to do this on a regular basis.

Have you noticed that during the first two years of relationship you and your partner create the basic patterns that determine how you communicate and ultimately the success or failure of your relationship?  How you navigate  “the bumps” or the challenges determines if you remain together long term and your ability to create intimacy, trust, unconditional love and true communication?

We each have a predominant love language.  Which is yours?  Which is your partners?  What about your parents and children?  You may respond to each of the 5 languages, but every person has a definite ranking.  You need to know both yours and your partners to feel truly and deeply loved and cared for.  You may not effectively be reaching the person you care about because you are not using their top strategy that makes them feel loved.  Even if you touch them, if their top love language and strategy is not satisfied, they will not feel totally loved.  

Tune in tomorrow for the magical 5 Love Languages.

smiles,
:) Lee
The MEGA Coach

 

 

A Fresh Moment

posted by The MEGA Coach

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A caterpillar becomes a cocoon.  Then the cocoon becomes a butterfly.
  Life’s miraculous process of transformation continues.  Death becomes new life.

All of us experience similar moments in our lives.  Something has ended, maybe a relationship, a dream, a business or a powerful pattern or situation.  Then the opportunity for something new and different emerges.

Follow your inner voice, your intuition and go forward.  Your mind will scream and rant and rave - your comfortable pattern or addiction is being threatened.  Listen to your intuition and center yourself.  You can let it go.  No matter what your circumstances are, you can start fresh now.

This is a fresh, new moment and can be a new beginning of health, joy, love, success and prosperity for you now.

Let go of the old and allow the new to take form.  Give people and situations the space to grow and develop naturally. 
Look in your heart and discover what is sincerely calling you.

Follow your truth and do what is best for your highest expression of your full, creative potential.

Focus on what truly makes you joyous and fulfilled.  Isn’t it in giving, loving, serving, creating, sharing and encouraging where we usually feel most alive?

The butterfly is such an exquisite and delightful creation of God and nature. 
It is so beautiful, yet delicate and floats and flows with the currents of life.  It’s life may be a short, but it is also glorious.

Maybe you are not too different from a butterfly. 
Are you willing to break out of your cocoon and be beautiful and magnificent?  After all, this is what you truly are…..beautiful, invincible and magnificent!

smiles,
:) Lee
The MEGA Coach

Richard Bach - Butterfly

 

 

 

 

 

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Keys to Freedom

posted by The MEGA Coach

loving kindness
Loving Kindness and Forgiveness are your keys to freedom.  When something is off balance in your life, it is usually a sign that forgiveness is needed. 

Sometimes that forgiveness is for another person, sometimes it is for yourself.  Give yourself a little grace.

To forgive means to let go, it does not mean you condone someone’s words or actions.  When you hold a grudge or judge another person you stick yourself to that energy, pattern and vibration.  The only way to peace and freedom is to let go and forgive.

smiles,
:) Lee
The MEGA Coach

 

Follow Your Joy

posted by The MEGA Coach

follow your heart
Do something for yourself that nourishes and refreshes your spirit and essence. 

Take a walk in nature or on the beach.  Make yourself a healthy and tasty meal.  Take a hot bath by candlelight.  Read an inspiring book.  Go to a movie.

Help a friend, encourage someone around you.  There are special people in your life that fill you with love, joy and inspiration.

Every day there are people who serve and contribute to you.  Take a moment to recognize, acknowledge and appreciate them.  Let them know they make a difference for you.

Happiness/Joy is your natural state.  When you feel good, that feeling (energy) flows out and people around you sense & feel it.

Good feelings, happiness, joy, love, enthusiasm are contagious.  No one can resist an enthusiastic person.

The better you feel the more good you attract and create – people just want to be near you.  You are a MEGA Magnet for good things, opportunities & abundance.

Kindness, encouragement and love support, uplift and inspire people.  They make even the most difficult challenges easier to bear.

Find something that feeds your soul.
 
Have a wonderful and prosperous day!

smiles,
:) Lee
The MEGA Coach

 

 

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