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Fulfilling Relationships

posted by The MEGA Coach

dating blindCommon story – a friend called as he was in a tough situation with his girlfriend.  Although he is a good and caring person, he couldn’t create and enjoy harmony, intimacy, fulfillment and true communication with his partner – even though he really wanted to.

Men and women communicate in different ways.  Even with good intentions, the end results can be frustrating and painful.

In this case, my friend did not know his partners love languages and most importantly their ranking.  A persons love language and their ranking determines their sense of feeling loved.  My friend also did not know his own love language.  It can be pretty interesting when someone thinks they know either their own love languages and ranking and in fact is incorrect.

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People have different styles of communicating and letting each other know that we care.
The 5 Love Languages” is a wonderful book by Gary Chapman.

What is your top love language and ranking?
1)  Physical touch
2)  Words of affirmation
3)  Gifts
4)  Quality time
5)  Acts of service

During the early days of our courtship and relationship, this information helped my wife and I develop a successful and loving way to communicate.  We were able to transcend life’s challenges.  We listened to each other in a caring way and shared our feelings without hurting or attacking the other person.  It’s listening with our hearts, ears and eyes instead of focusing on the words.  We developed new strategies to share the difficult feelings in a way that works.

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During the first two years of relationship you and your partner create the patterns that determine how you communicate and ultimately the success or failure of your relationship.  How you both navigate “the bumps” determines if you will remain together long term and demonstrates your ability to create intimacy, trust, unconditional love and true communication.

We each have a predominant love language.  Which is yours?  Which is your partners?  What about your parents and children?  People may respond to each of the 5 languages, but every person has a definite ranking.  If you want to feel truly and deeply loved it helps to know this specific information about yourself and the most important people in your life.  You may not effectively be reaching the person you care about because you are not using their prime strategy that causes them feel loved.

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smiles,
:) Lee
The MEGA Coach

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Quack, Quack, Galahad Returns

posted by The MEGA Coach

More Galahad 010Galahad Returns 3-27-15Last April my wife went away for a week to visit her parents in Arizona.  I came home that afternoon to find two ducks had come in by going under the front gate and were hanging out between our garage and front door.  They next thing I knew I was giving them water and food.

The male and female duck came by almost every day for a few weeks and I named them Grace and Galahad.  Grace must have given birth to her baby ducks, as only Galahad returned.  Galahad continued to visit every day until the end of August.  He often stopped by three to five times a day.  We loved having him visit and feel so welcome and free.

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Often, Galahad would hang out in front of our gate on the blacktop in the driveway.  I sensed he felt safe here and at the same time it was as if he was protecting me and our home.  It was a special treat to have Galahad visit and spend time.  When he ate, sometimes Galahad would let me sit near by on the front step and share the meal and time.  Ducks are incredibly colorful and beautiful.  They are iridescent.

My wife, Denise is a animal lover and told me how special this is for these two ducks to trust me during mating season.  Denise suggested I look up ducks in her book Animal Speak, The Spiritual & Magical Powers of Creatures Great & Small by Ted Andrews.

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“KEYNOTE: Emotional Comfort and Protection.  Water is necessary for all life on earth.  Nothing can live without it.  Ducks can remind us to drink of the waters of life as well as to nurture our own emotional natures.  Ducks have a great ability to show affection and they are very community oriented.  They will also return to wherever they feel safe and comfortable.  Ducks can sometimes remind us to return to those parts of ourself or those activities that we feel safe and comfortable in as well.”

It was a time of cleansing as I dove deeply into the waters of my life and family to find forgiveness, freedom and transcendence.  During this powerful time, Galahad and Grace cheered me on.  I was thankful and it was a unique experience.  I wondered if I would see Grace and Galahad again.

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Spring came early this year and few weeks ago, more ducks and geese appeared at the lake nearby.  Sure enough, Galahad came waddling up our front walkway.  It was like old times.  Galahad has a unique way of checking out the scene as he slowly waddles and uses his neck to look around corners and objects.  Nature is brilliant and fascinating and Galahad is so cute!

The universe sends us special signals, friends, guides and angels on our path.  The key is to acknowledge the moment and learn the lesson.

“May you be blessed with the divine plan of your life, under grace and in perfect ways.”

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smiles,
:) Lee
The MEGA Coach

 

Here is last year’s blog on Grace and Galahad:

http://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/haveamagnificentday/2014/05/quack-quack-grace-and-galahad-are-here.html#DVYeAzKC3KE5QsO0.99

 

(Photos by The MEGA Coach)

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Are You Awake?

posted by The MEGA Coach

Transformation - Lao TzuAn article in Success Magazine reported, “Psychologists say 68% of people miss out on opportunity simply because they are not awake to it.”  Almost 70% of people are not taking advantage of opportunities in front of them.

What about you?  How much of your life, joy, health, happiness and abundance are you missing because you are not present and paying attention to what is happening right now?

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Each moment is a chance to start fresh.  If you are not happy or fulfilled in your life and do not want your story to end this way, you have the power to make a new choice.  Move in a new and better direction and take appropriate and consistent actions until you succeed.

You can use your life, your situation, your circumstances to wake up or you can use it to put yourself further asleep.  It is your life, so it is your choice.  If you do not consciously make a choice, you are still making a choice.

Here are good suggestions from Roy Eugene Davis and The MEGA Coach:

Take some quality time for yourself in a good environment to look at your life.  Sincerely reflect on what you have been doing and how you have been living your life up until now.  Be brutally honest.

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Are you happy, satisfied and fulfilled with your choices and actions?
Is this the direction and path you want to continue on?
Will it create your highest good?
What can you do to improve your total well being and personal and professional circumstances?
How can you nurture your spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and financial growth?

Write out your vision, purpose, goals and your immediate actions steps.

Go forward, one step at a time, with confidence and firm resolve.

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Anything is possible!  You can do it!  Discover and follow your divine plan and take sincere, appropriate action one moment at a time.  Stay present and focus on what is in front of you.  Do your best now, create the best possible future and learn the most of your past.

Make Your Life a Masterpiece!


prosperously yours,

:) Lee
The MEGA Coach

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My Word Is Power

posted by The MEGA Coach

The Power of the Spoken Word IIFrom Florence Scovel Shinn:

“Look back in your life and see how you have attracted either happiness or disaster through your words.  The subconscious has no sense of humor.  People joke destructively about themselves and the subconscious takes it seriously.  It is because the mental picture you make while speaking impresses the subconscious and works out on the external.

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A person who knows the power of the word becomes very careful of his conversation.  He has only to watch the reaction of his words to know they do not return void.  People make their worst mistakes by speaking while they are angry or resentful, because there is so much ill-feeling back of their words.  Owing to the vibratory power of words, what you voice, you begin to attract.  Invisible forces are every working for man, who is always pulling the strings for himself, though he does not know it.”

Enjoy this wonderful book and inspiration of Florence Scovel Shinn who shares prosperity consciousness and spiritual wisdom.

smiles,

:) Lee
The MEGA Coach

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