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Lessons from a Recovering Doormat
You Can’t Buy Love
By
Daylle Deanna Schwartz
Love isn’t a product, like shoes, or lemons. Yet people pleasers try to buy it with favors and being agreeable. I did whewn I was a DoorMat! And like many women, I was under the erroneous belief that if I catered to the needs of a guy I was dating, he’d want to stay. Women…
Speak Up and Save Money
By
Daylle Deanna Schwartz
I recently went to find new sandals online. I know the brand I love and did a search for them. I found a site that gave me a window of a variety of shoes for the brand I wanted. At the top of the page I was thrilled to see a message with a code…
What You Think vs. What Others Think
By
Daylle Deanna Schwartz
People pleasers often let others think for them. You may not realize you’re doing it. You might tell a friend that you want to see a certain movie and get told you won’t like it. When you hear that all your enthusiasm for seeing the movie vanishes .Or you may get dressed and put…
Get Rid of Your “Not Good Enoughs”
By
Daylle Deanna Schwartz
When I was a DoorMat, I let people walk all over me. I jumped to do favors for everyone. I agreed to do what other people wanted to do. Other people ran my life for me. All because I believed I wasn’t “good enough” to get my own needs met. My belief came from feeling…
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