Question: I understand the nature of fear and how it feeds on itself, but I would like to know more about the right words and actions to be used when dealing with my child’s fear of the dark. I know she will sense my essence, therefore I would like guidance in this area.
Answer: Children naturally are nourished, for either the good or bad of that inner food, by the energetic states they pick up from us. One of the problems you’re facing here (that we all face) is that you don’t want to make a mistake. Consider this: How else do we learn what is true other than by being willing to enter into uncertain conditions and therein finding out for ourselves what works and what doesn’t. This action, for instance, even the most feeble attempt to explain to your child the nothingness of fear, you will learn from and so will she. Go to work.
Only as each of us awakens to our actual condition in life, dominated as we are to one degree or another by a discontented self, can we ever hope to use our free will to give up our willfully discontented self in favor of a new and true allegiance with what is peace and contentment itself…
In this short audio clip, Guy Finley talks about some of the characteristics of free will — the capacity to choose what we love — and the higher kind of responsibility that comes with that gift.
Whether you see it or not, this world is in the hands of the hand that is coming from beneath the earth. Just think of all the acts of will that are occurring as they never have occurred before on this planet where young children and adults commit unbelievable acts and then say, “I have no idea what came over me.” This is what came over them: through years of abuse by a planet filled with people who don’t care, and through years of refusing the tiny moments when their Father did place His hand in theirs, they have reached the point where they can’t recognize the difference between the hand that wants to pull them down, and the hand that wants to lift them up. And once you come to the point where you can no longer tell the difference — you’re a goner.
But to know the difference costs something, doesn’t it? It means we have to work when we would really prefer not to be bothered. We want to feel pleasure with no disturbance, but that’s spiritual and psychological sleep. Christ said, “Watch,” meaning, “Be awake.” When he cautioned people to “be awake” he was telling them to see whose hand they were holding. Your Father’s hand not only doesn’t let you go to sleep, it lifts you. The hand from beneath not only puts you to sleep, but it does it faster and faster, so that one day you won’t even know that your hand was held fast in that descending hand.
Stay awake, regardless of what it seems to cost you. Remember to do this exercise: Come awake every moment and ask yourself: “In whose hand is mine?” When you’re driving your car or sitting in a business meeting, ask yourself: “In whose hand is mine?” The moment you become aware of yourself and ask the question, you will know which spirit just possessed you.