The Hurt
The church is not automatically better at forgiveness, and it isn’t any easier for Christians to face the pain of a failed relationship, broken friendship or burned bridge.
The problem with forgiveness today is there is a perception that it means we have to lay down to our enemies, that we’re weaker than they are, but the truth is that compassionate forgiveness is not a weakness. It represents the strength of God within us to overcome our pain and love those who have hurt us.
It is easier to snap back at those who hurt us, but it is God who works in us to bless our words with grace as we respond to that person.