Few experiences are as painful as discovering a partner’s affair. As a couple’s therapist, one of the most common questions I hear is, “Should I try to work through the betrayal and give my spouse another chance?” There is no one-size-fits-all answer, but these ten questions can help guide your decision. 1. Don’t make a rushed…

I am in one of the periods of my life when I am waiting for something to happen. This isn’t my first go around with what appear to be a delay, but I know God is sovereign and works for my good. His timing is always the best. In the meantime, I wait. Patience doesn’t…

Imagine someone who desperately wants to change careers because they feel called to do more meaningful work. Every time an opportunity appears, fear steps in: What if I fail? What if I disappoint others? What if I can’t handle it? Months turn into years, and nothing changes. Fear, not faith or purpose, has quietly taken the driver’s…

  “We need to talk.” It sounds simple—maybe even obvious—but too many people avoid these four words. When something feels off in your relationship, the most important person to talk to is your partner—not your friends, not your family, and not social media. Talk to the person involved in the conflict If something bothers you,…

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