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6 Signs to Know if Someone is Gaslighting You
By
Linda Mintle
A 1938 stage play involved a husband who tried to drive his wife to insanity. His method? Make her think reality wasn’t real by telling her the dimming lights in their home were not dimming at all. Now, during the 1930s, lights were powered by gas. So when the husband turned down the gas lamps…
Stop This One Behavior for a Better Relationship
By
Linda Mintle
A young Navy wife comes to therapy: Wife: All my husband does is leave for deployments. I am tired of this and I don’t like it! Me: Did you know this was part of the job when you married him? Wife: Yes but I don’t like it. He doesn’t meet my needs. He’s never around. …
Is it OK to Be a Highly Sensitive Person?
By
Linda Mintle
I cry during movies! Toy Story 3 is a double whammy. The tears begin when Andy leaves the toys for college. Then we see all the toys holding hands when they are about to be incinerated. The scene is a tear jerker! Or how about when Mufasa dies in Lion King and his young cub…
7 Ways to Build More Empathy
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Linda Mintle
“I can’t imagine what it must have been like to go through what you just did. It sounds awful and I am here to listen.” Do you have someone in your life who offers this type of support and listening ear? If you do, consider yourself blessed. You know someone with empathy. Unfortunately, those people seem…
What Jonah Teaches Us About Bigotry
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Linda Mintle
The biblical story of Jonah is a familiar one if you grew up with flannel boards in Sunday school. It’s a story that has all the elements of a good movie. In the story, God tells Jonah, a Hebrew, to go to Nineveh, a pagan godless city whose king and people hate the Hebrews. Jonah…
5 Ways to Overcome Feelings of Revenge
By
Linda Mintle
A few years ago, an angry and revengeful man shot two journalists in cold blood. By his own admission, he was a time bomb waiting to explode, fueled by offenses that appeared to have been fabricated in his head. Regardless of the reality of his concerns, his response was revenge, with the hope of infamy. Fortunately,…
Spiritual Help to Deal With Dark Times
By
Linda Mintle
There are times in our lives when we feel we are in a dark season. It’s like we have fallen into a pit-physically, mentally, emotionally, financially or even spiritually. Things happen; sometimes because of our own doing. Other times, because of the actions of others. And still other times, because of disease and the brokenness…
6 Common Excuses to Not Go to Counseling
By
Linda Mintle
People give lots of common excuses not to go to counseling. Take David, for example. David’s mood is a problem. He is irritable and difficult to be around lately. Something is really bothering him. Yet, he won’t talk about it or get help. Counseling could help, but he won’t go. Like David, do you make…
3 ways to Overcome Jealous Feelings
By
Linda Mintle
Jealousy, the green-eyed-monster that makes us green with envy! It’s true. We all have jealous moments. But sustained jealous feelings are not healthy. Over time, the lingering effects of jealousy lead to relationship problems. So how do we let those jealous feelings go? First, we need to get at the root cause. Jealousy is usually…
10 Ideas for a Little Romance to Keep Love Alive
By
Linda Mintle
Once a year, we plan for a romantic day and celebrate love. Most of us will make dinner plans, buy cards and gifts to express our love and appreciation for that special someone. But after the Valentine’s Day celebration, how do you score in the romance department? Are you keeping love alive post February 14th? Honestly,…
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