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The Humiliation that Leads to Salvation

posted by Guy Finley

In difficult moments with others let us remember this truth: it is better to find ourselves lacking the love we need to be kind — and to quietly suffer this humiliation — than it is to act from what is […]

The Easily Offended is the Self Most Defended

posted by Guy Finley

Key Lesson: The smaller the self, the bigger the sense of offense it takes whenever anyone steps up to challenge one of its precious self-images. Realize Real Self-Command There is a very surprising reason why we tend to suffer over […]

The Gift of Bringing Light into the Life of Another

posted by Guy Finley

Whenever we can remember that we would rather smile about what life brings us than suffer over it — that our natural preference is happiness, not hurtfulness — then in such moments of being mindful of what we love most […]

The Light of the World

posted by Guy Finley

Who is going to be the one who stops the wave of darkness on this earth? We are intended, each and every one of us, to be the light of the world — the point at which, in this world, […]

Previous Posts

Enter the Place of Power
Before you can learn how to change your destiny, you must first realize that secret place within yourself where your own future is created. You must consciously enter that place of power where all of your life-choices are made for you. It’s called the present moment: The now. And this now is the s

posted 12:00:17pm Jul. 21, 2014 | read full post »

Blooming is Part of Your Being
Any lingering shame over who or what you were in "days gone by" is like a newly opened rose blushing for having once been a bud...

posted 12:00:26pm Jul. 18, 2014 | read full post »

(Audio) Stop Being Used by Shame
In this short talk, Guy Finley explains the difference between the false kind of shame that shackles us to a self that is trapped in the past, and the proper kind of conscious remorse that is the seed of true humility and freedom. [audio mp3="http://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/lettinggo/files/20

posted 12:00:05pm Jul. 17, 2014 | read full post »

The Beginning of Freedom From Blame and Other Acts of Useless Thinking
No individual relationship is the (sole) cause of one's conflict or pain; our relationships reveal the nature of an unconscious pain that we bring into them with us. To start discerning the difference between these (two) perceptions is the beginning of freedom from blame, shame, and other acts of us

posted 12:00:31pm Jul. 16, 2014 | read full post »

Making Amends for Past Wrongs
Question: I’ve seen that I’ve said and done some terrible things to people in my life. How do I get through this guilt and shame? Is there a right way to make amends to the people I’ve wronged? Answer: Oh yes, there is. Change yourself. In the long run, there is no other way that we can eit

posted 12:00:30pm Jul. 15, 2014 | read full post »


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