Be Confident in Who God Made You to Be
What’s that prime rule of dating for Christian women? Oh yes—be submissive.
Want a real Christian man? If quiet, meek submissiveness isn’t already an integral part of your personality, you throw that out the window right now. And even if it is, listen up—this is going to help you, too.
God made you. He crafted you. His divine fingers carefully and intentionally formed every last aspect of your physical, emotional, and psychological self. You are beautifully made to be who you are for a reason.
If you’re strong, He made you strong. If you’re ambitious, He made you ambitious. If you’re intelligent, He made you intelligent. If you like to dress masculinely, shoulders covered in spikes, hands encased in fingerless gloves, well, that’s a part of how you were made, too.
A lot of Christian women are told to be and act a certain way while playing the dating game, and most of it is just not scriptural. These misconceptions stem from misinterpretation, and a lack of critical thought when it comes to the historical context of the Bible—especially in the Old Testament.
You can display every trait that makes you yourself, and you can do it in a way that is pleasing to God. You can be strong without being unkind. You can be smart without being disrespectful. You can dress the way you want, and God’s just going to cheer you on, because He’s going to be thinking, “Hey, I made that”.
Be true to yourself, and you’ll stand out from the sea of church-culture clones. The real, mature Christian man will recognize the uniqueness of your being and cherish you for it.
