Don’t set goals that are too hard to achieve. You’ll get discouraged and possibly stop trying if you don’t see enough progress. Going from a job that pays $25,000 a year to getting one paying $100,000 sounds nice but may be too big of a step. Instead, seek to find a job that pays more.
An intention to get married in the next year doesn’t give you enough time to get to know a potential partner. Rushing into marriage with someone willing to marry you can leave you feeling frustrated if you discover he/she isn’t what you wanted. It’s better to seek to meet good people to date and possibly marry down the road.