How healthy are your relationships? Relationships are wrecked with the exclusion of grace. If you come into another's life and start making rules, demands, and want your own way, then grace is absent. Begin to think of it like this… How much grace has God given you when you were tired, hungry, disappointed, angry, lying, hurting another? When we step back and allow the people in our lives to be themselves, that is where we find freedom, a clean conscious and ultimately love. Ask God to help you in the area of grace.