For Trudy and Alan Thomlinson, love has stood the test of time—75 years, to be exact. The English couple, now 97 and 96, met at a youth social event and married in 1949. Today, they are as devoted to each other as ever, sharing their golden years in a senior home.

So, what’s their secret?

Zip your lip — and keep it zipped.

“Knowing when to keep your mouth shut,” Trudy told What’s The Jam. While she admits there are moments of frustration, she and Alan are grateful for the life they’ve built together.

The Thomlinsons now reside at Middleton Lodge Care Home in Derby, operated by Avery Healthcare, which partnered with online care home locator Lottie in August 2024. For them, staying together at this stage in life is a gift. “We’ve built a life together, and it’s wonderful to keep that going in such a lovely place,” Trudy shared.

Their story, also highlighted by the BBC, showcases the power of lifelong companionship. “We’ve always been together—we wouldn’t think of life without each other,” Trudy said.

Remarkably, the Thomlinsons aren’t the only couple at Middleton Lodge enjoying this special arrangement. Several residents live in companion suites designed to ensure spouses can stay together while receiving necessary care.

Joanne Graves, the care home manager, explained to the BBC, “Many people come into care homes after losing a spouse, which makes the transition incredibly difficult. The most important thing for our couples is that they stay together, and it’s a privilege to help them do that.”

Among the other enduring love stories at the home are Peter and Eileen Wade, aged 90 and 89. Married in 1958 after meeting at a school dance in Manchester, their secret to a happy marriage is simple: tolerance.

“Accept that people have little quirks—it’s part of marriage. You can’t just walk away,” Peter advised. Eileen added, “Allow space for the things your partner enjoys, even if they’re not your interests.”

These remarkable couples serve as a reminder that love, patience, and understanding are the cornerstones of a lasting marriage. Their wisdom proves that while time may pass, true devotion endures.