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Serenity in an Age of Anxiety
Serenity in an Age of Anxiety
Your Personal Mission Statement
By
Kelly Dorfman
Purpose provides a reason to get out of bed in the morning. It is a context for goals and a reason to go on when a goal is met. Saving the whales or winning the Olympics are goals, not purpose. A purpose provides the why for the goal and the impetus to go on…
Purpose vs. Calling
By
Kelly Dorfman
“Most people who come to see me want to find their calling, “ reported Shoshanna, a counselor who works with adults. She and two of her self-employed friends were chatting over dinner about work. “The idea that you need a calling makes people unhappy and is completely untrue. A job puts food on the…
Love Thy Annoying Neighbor
By
Kelly Dorfman
When Stephanie* heard loud music and children yelling, she asked her husband if the neighbors were having a party at their pool. “It is a block party,” Alan replied without looking up from him iPad, “ but Jason said it was just for families with kids.” Stephanie frowned. That meant they were…
Being Right Does Not Justify Bad Behavior
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Kelly Dorfman
Don’t believe everything you think; Part 3 of 3. Blog #27 “Watch where you are going, as$!%&#,” Randi yelled out the window when a car cut in front of her, narrowly missing her bumper. “People are so rude,” she fumed. We have all had this experience because people behave thoughtlessly and badly in large…
Memories Can Be Unreliable
By
Kelly Dorfman
Don’t believe everything you think-Part 2 of 3 Luke was tired of his wife, Leah* pressuring him about changing his job. He would look for another eventually, but now was not the time. Leah insisted Luke had broken a commitment to her that they could move when the kids finished school. She was counting on…
Your Brain on Scarcity
By
Kelly Dorfman
Don’t Believe Everything You Think (Part 1 of 3) In 1944, as World War II raged and millions of people did not have enough to eat, researchers at the University of Minnesota began a study on the impact of starvation. Conscientious objectors volunteered to live in a dorm for a year and eat only what…
Breaking the Fourth Wall : What Lasts Forever?
By
Kelly Dorfman
Part 2 The number of people with anxiety has exploded over the last decade or so. What was a once a challenge for some has elevated to a disability for many. Through my practice, I noticed better diet, more sleep, supplements, therapy and exercise improved symptoms, but no combination of these helped enough. No matter…
Breaking the Fourth Wall-A nutritionist embraces what we think
By
Kelly Dorfman
I am a clinical nutritionist that specializes in complex cases. The average patient who contacts me has consulted 4 or 5 medical practitioners and specialists already. This usually means the patient is stuck or has heard about and wants to explore targeted nutrition therapy. Nutrition therapy can succeed when drugs or standard medical treatment…
The Serenity in an Age of Anxiety Reading List
By
Kelly Dorfman
In response to requests for more resources and in-depth supportive material, here is: The Serenity in an Age of Anxiety Reading List. Serenity and Forgiveness A Course in Miracles Made Easy by Alan Cohen (Hay House 2015) A Return to Love by Marianne Williamson (Harper Collins 1996) Radical Forgiveness by Colin Tipping (Sounds…
Activate Your Super Power with Wholeheartedness
By
Kelly Dorfman
Breaking the Blame Cycle Part 3 Everyone needs love and attention but it turns out you cannot force it out of other people. Blame is the misguided attempt to get out of others what you cannot find in yourself. Even if a behavior needs to be changed, to paraphrase Einstein, you can’t solve a…
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