Dating within the Christian faith, especially when those relationships begin within the church, can feel, at times, artificial, like a memorized dance, as if you’re doing the Hokey Pokey over and over.
You put your right hand in, making sure you cover any exposed leg or shoulder. You take your right hand out, doing your best to appear meek and feminine as you talk to the man you want. You put your right hand in, making sure you’re extra submissive. And then you do you do your very Christian best not to shake it all about.
Love shouldn’t be like that. It’s not what God intended.
And this isn’t even really what attracts Christian men—it’s just what guys often pretend to be attracted by so that they can fit into Christian dating culture.
Those are boys with religion. You want a man with theology.
So what do men with sincere Christian faith truly look for in a woman? What will give them that twinkle in their eye when they see you?
Let’s go through 7 things that will make you attractive to a real Christian man.