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Letting Go with Guy Finley

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Be the Ruler of Your Own Reactions (Part 1)

posted by Guy Finley

These three words — I can learn — are the most powerful three words in any language. Nothing in the universe can hold down that rare individual who clearly realizes that he or she doesn’t know what’s in the way […]

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The Healing Touch of Conscious Suffering

posted by Guy Finley

Evil transforms suffering into unconscious acts of blame, bitterness, and self-pity — harmful forces that punish everyone; while the Good transforms these same dark states into conscious suffering — creating humility that heals whomever it touches.

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Happiness Can’t Grow Here

posted by Guy Finley

Question: I lost a great deal of money to a dishonest business partner. I can’t believe I could have fallen for such an obvious scam or that a person I thought was my friend could have stolen from me what […]

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Step Out of the Trap of Feeling Sorry for Yourself

posted by Guy Finley

The heart watered by tears of self-pity soon turns to stone.

10 Reasons Why Feeling Sorry For Yourself Doesn’t Work

posted by Guy Finley

Here is a life-saving fact, so welcome the healing it brings by being willing to see the truth hidden within it: There lives nothing real in our past — regardless of how disappointing or painful it may have been — […]

Why it Feels “Good” to Give in to Depression

posted by Guy Finley

Question: Why does it feel so good to give in to depression? And why is it so hard to see the truth that wallowing in sadness in fact does us no good? Answer: We value negative states because of the […]

Previous Posts

Discover Your Unseen Attachment to Heartache
When it comes to healing mental or emotional pain, the first step to freeing oneself is in seeing the following facts: resistance to anything (including psychological pain) is a secret form of fascination with it, and to be fascinated with ...

posted 12:00:59pm Apr. 20, 2015 | read full post »

The Secret Invitation in Negative States
Learn to see and to use the presence of any psychological pain as an invitation to reprioritize your present values. . . ...

posted 12:00:53pm Apr. 17, 2015 | read full post »

(Video) Judgment Day is Not in a Time to Come
Guy explains that every time we are identified with a negative state that is judgment day. We are judged, but not in a punishing sense. We are actually invited to see where we have acted from an imbalanced ...

posted 12:00:54pm Apr. 16, 2015 | read full post »

Authority Over Whatever Punishes You
Whatever we try to go around in ourselves guarantees it will come around again, which is why the things we fear in life and about ourselves always tend to reappear. Here’s the law that governs this relationship: whatever we resist in life ...

posted 12:00:53pm Apr. 15, 2015 | read full post »

Start Giving Yourself What You Really Want
It’s a little-known secret that our experience of life in any given moment is a direct reflection of what we actually value in that same moment. We may deny this unsettling truth, but when it comes to what we are in relationship with, inwardly ...

posted 12:00:05pm Apr. 14, 2015 | read full post »

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