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How to End the Cycle of Hurting and Being Hurt (Conclusion)

posted by Guy Finley

Each time we will consciously refuse to strike back in anger or act out some aggression toward the one who hurts us, we sow the seed of a new order of a conscious life. Now instead of being used by […]

How to End the Cycle of Hurting and Being Hurt (Part 2)

posted by Guy Finley

It doesn’t matter how, or where, this dark cycle of conflict got started. It is not important any longer. Why? Because once we understand that to try to hurt someone — even just to want to — is to hurt […]

How to End the Cycle of Hurting and Being Hurt (Part 1)

posted by Guy Finley

When someone acts thoughtlessly towards us, it is a similar thoughtlessness in us that responds. In other words, our own hostile reactions take no thought for anything outside of what they call into account for their suddenly heated existence — […]

The Best Gift for Those We Love

posted by Guy Finley

  The greatest, most “expensive” gift that anyone can give to another is priceless, and yet… it is available in abundance for everyone to give all the time. Not only that, but this same gift rewards its giver in the […]

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Living the Beauty of the Present Moment
The present moment is the canvas of creation: our perception, a palette of primary colors; our actions, brush strokes -- while thought provides both background and texture. To know these things is the beginning of the artful life.

posted 12:00:19pm Jul. 22, 2014 | read full post »

Enter the Place of Power
Before you can learn how to change your destiny, you must first realize that secret place within yourself where your own future is created. You must consciously enter that place of power where all of your life-choices are made for you. It’s called the present moment: The now. And this now is the s

posted 12:00:17pm Jul. 21, 2014 | read full post »

Blooming is Part of Your Being
Any lingering shame over who or what you were in "days gone by" is like a newly opened rose blushing for having once been a bud...

posted 12:00:26pm Jul. 18, 2014 | read full post »

(Audio) Stop Being Used by Shame
In this short talk, Guy Finley explains the difference between the false kind of shame that shackles us to a self that is trapped in the past, and the proper kind of conscious remorse that is the seed of true humility and freedom. [audio mp3="http://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/lettinggo/files/20

posted 12:00:05pm Jul. 17, 2014 | read full post »

The Beginning of Freedom From Blame and Other Acts of Useless Thinking
No individual relationship is the (sole) cause of one's conflict or pain; our relationships reveal the nature of an unconscious pain that we bring into them with us. To start discerning the difference between these (two) perceptions is the beginning of freedom from blame, shame, and other acts of us

posted 12:00:31pm Jul. 16, 2014 | read full post »


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