Lessons from a Recovering Doormat

Lessons from a Recovering Doormat


Law of Attraction in Action: THE REASON for Good in Your Life

LOAlogoBLOGThis is post 270 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series  to see how.

People pleasers often complain that they do so much good for others but don’t attract good for themselves, even though they put their desires out. I felt the same way when I was a DoorMat. It’s harder to manifest when your good isn’t THE REASON that you want to be happy.

It’s hard to love yourself when you’re a DoorMat, thinking about the happiness and welfare of others over yourself. That tells the Universe that your desires and needs aren’t your priority so your vibration gets skewed. I began The Self-Love Movement™ to help people build enough self-love to want to make themselves important enough to be THE REASON for good self-care and being happy.

Self-love can be THE REASON you manifest or not. If what you want is tied to someone else, the Universe may see that as you believing you don’t matter. When your desire comes from a place of self love, the fervor in that desire creates a strong vibration—of wanting and deserving it.

Self-love can be THE REASON:

•    That you give yourself good self-care
•    That you finally accept yourself in your own skin
•    That you break unhealthy habits
•    That you cut toxic people out of your life
•    That you go after your dreams

That kind of motivation attracts support from the Law of Attraction. When your reason for wanting something is to please someone else, there’s usually no passion behind it, though there can be some negative emotions driving your desire to please—such as fear of not being liked, guilt that you have an underlying feeling that you did something wrong, or feeling undeserving of asking for something for yourself yourself. And as I’ve said many times, underlying negative emotions keep your vibration for manifesting low.

Make sure YOU and your well-being is THE REASON for what you want. Tell the Law of Attraction that you really want to manifest for your good. Feel the love! Let self-love motivate and spark your vibration to get good stuff for YOU! I made the video below to emphasize that point. Please watch it and forward it to everyone you can

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See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series HERE.

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