The Myth of the 'Medium'
Debunking the three techniques of 'talking to the dead.'
Throughout much of 1998 and 1999, the best-selling book in America was by aman who says he can talk to the dead (and so can you, if you buy his book).It turns out that our loved ones who have passed over are not really dead,just on another spiritual plane.
I am referring to James Van Praagh, the famous medium. According tohis own web page
, "Van Praagh is a survival evidence medium, meaning that he is able to bridge the gap between two planes of existence, that of the living and that of the dead, by providing evidential proof of life after death via detailed messages." VanPraagh calls himself a "clairsentient," or "clear feeling," where he canallegedly "feel the emotions and personalities of the deceased." He claims that the "spirits communicate by their emotions," and even though they do not speakEnglish or any other language, they can tell you, for example, "that youchanged your pants because of a hole in the left seam or that you couldn'tmail letters today because the stamps weren't in the bottom right deskdrawer."
He readily admits that he makes mistakes in his readings (there areso many he could hardly deny it), rationalizing it this way: "If I conveyrecognizable evidence along with even a fraction of the loving energy behindthe message, I consider the reading successful."
I once sat in on a day of readings with Van Praagh and kept a running tallyof his ratio of hits and misses for each of ten subjects (one of whom was me,all filmed for NBC's "Unsolved Mysteries"). Being generous with what kind ofinformation counted as a "hit," Van Praagh averaged 5-10 hits for every 30questions/statements, or 16-33 percent. But because Van Praagh's payoffis the hope of life after death and a chance to speak with a lost loved one,people are exceptionally forgiving of his many misses.
Watching James Van Praagh work a crowd or do a one-on-one reading is aneducational experience in human psychology. Make no mistake about it, this isone clever man. Van Praagh masterfully uses his ability and learned skills in three basic techniques he uses to "talk" to the dead: