3 Ways To Make the Secret Work For You By Samantha Fey

Why Not?

Well, for starters, there's a little thing called karma. If you're trying to manifest a relationship with someone but it’s not supposed to happen because someone better is down the road, it's not going to happen -- no matter how many times you "feel it real."

And for another, there's a big thing called conditioning. Many of us have been conditioned to revert back to negative thinking. Think of common phrases we all use such as “You can’t have your cake and eat it too.” Why would you want cake if you can’t eat it? Or “Don’t trade the devil you know for the one you don’t” and then there’s, “Don’t bite the hand that feeds you.” All of this negative conditioning is designed to keep us stuck.

But there are three great things you begin doing now to change negative conditioning and make the Law of Attraction work for you.

Give Back

Many studies show that people who volunteer their time or tithe a part of their earnings each week are much happier, fulfilled and healthier than people who don’t participate in service organizations or donate to charity. I have a friend who began tithing 10% of her income to whoever spiritually uplifted her that week. One week she have a gift card for a pedicure and cash bonus to her mail carrier because she had found an important package that was thought to be lost. Another week, she gave her neighbors a week of meals after they volunteered to babysit for her in a pinch. It’s fun to give back in this way and all research shows that it increases your ability to manifest the Law of Attraction. What you give out comes back to you, so the more you give to others, the more you will receive.

Write Down Your Goals

I x V = R. Imagination times Visualization Equals Reality. Imagine your goals coming true, visualize them, write them down, cut out pictures of your goals (the new house, the happy relationship, the paid off credit card) and they will start to become a reality. Take some time in the New Year to create a goal book. Choose three goals and on each page write down one goal and attach a picture that represents that goal. If you’re looking for a new job, cut out a picture of a person smiling behind a desk. Glue it to its own page and write above it, “The best job for my truest happiness and success finds me now.” Look at your goal book for at least a month and begin to recondition your subconscious to receive success, love, health and happiness.

Soon, you'll start to see changes in your thinking, your reactions, your unconscious programming and this will in turn change your energy, increase your vibration and make you more receptive to attracting positive things, events and people to you.