We're sorry, the feature you were looking for is no longer available on Beliefnet. <!-- <a target="_top" href="/index/index_455.html"><img align="left" border="0" alt="" src="/imgs/tout/myss_icon4.gif" /></a>The mature personality of the Child archetype nurtures that part of ourselves that longs to be lighthearted, innocent and expectant of the wonders of tomorrow--regardless of our age. This part of our nature contributes greatly to our ability to sense a playfulness in our lives that balances the seriousness of adult life. The balanced Child is a delight to be around because the energy that flows from this part of our personality is infectious and brings out the best in others, as well as in ourselves. <br /><br />When the Child archetype is underdeveloped, it can take on the expressions of: <br /><br /><strong>Wounded</strong><br /> <li>an inability to get out of the pains of childhood </li> <li>a tendency to always seek out parental figures </li> <li>a tendency to fantasize about the childhood that could have or should have been<br /><br /><strong>Orphan</strong><br /></li> <li>plagued with the fear of abandonment </li> <li>always seeking reinforcement from others that they will not leave," thus establishing mature relationships remains a challenge<br /><br /><strong>Brat</strong><br /></li> <li>given to obnoxious behavior and temper tantrums </li> <li>chronic need to always be the center of attention </li> <li>prone to fits of jealousy and envy<br /><br /><strong>Needy</strong><br /></li> <li>carries a heavy feeling inside that nothing is ever enough </li> <li>similar to Wounded Child, except that bouts with depression tend to the severe </li> <li>tendency to be very focused on their own needs, often unable to see the needs of others<br /><br /><a target="_top" href="/story/84/story_8446_1.html">back to Health and Archetypes main</a><br /></li> -->