<a href="http://www.beliefnet.com/av/popupplayer.aspx?videoId=1452257788'http://www.beliefnet.com/av/popupplayer.aspx?v=72307b3584b6a3a0ed95fabdf6979eef4656b1b7','popupplayer',695,419); return false;"> <img alt="" hspace="5" src="/imgs/spiritbreak/alana/sf_IVanzant_QuietMind.jpg" align="right" vspace="5" border="0"> </a>Why does everybody think there’s something wrong with them? This inspirational speaker and best-selling author says we complain just to entertain ourselves. Instead, she suggests that we practice looking for the good in ourselves and others. <br> <div> </div> <div align="center"><a href="http://www.beliefnet.com/av/popupplayer.aspx?videoId=1452257788'http://www.beliefnet.com/av/popupplayer.aspx?v=72307b3584b6a3a0ed95fabdf6979eef4656b1b7','popupplayer',695,419); return false;"><img alt="" src="/imgs/tout/story/clicktowatch_spiritbreak.gif" border="0"></a></div> <div> </div> <div align="left"> </div> <div align="left"> </div><br><span class="text"><strong>More Wisdom:</strong> <li><a href="http://www.beliefnet.com/story/218/story_21888_1.html">Sue Monk Kidd: Paint Your Life</a> </li> <li><a href="http://www.beliefnet.com/story/219/story_21980_1.html">Desmond Tutu on Being Yourself</a> </li> <li><a href="http://www.beliefnet.com/story/221/story_22133_1.html">Beach Running in the Morning</a> <div> </div>Video provided by <a href="http://communities.faithstreams.com/newmorning/GroupHome/tabid/18746/Default.aspx" target="_blank">Faithstreams.com</a> </li></span>