You've heard of "no mans land." That's where you've been hanging out. Shopping, shaping, and spritzing yourself up has its time and place.
Instead, try journeying to where guys spend their Saturdays. The golf course, Home Depot, and just about any sporting event. That's where the guys are.
How can you stay authentic while you venture into the unchartered territory of "Yes Man Land"? Learn something new while showing up where men like to hang out.
Take a do-it-yourself clinic to organize your closet. Sign-up for a lesson to improve your putting. Find a guy friend to introduce you to arena football.
Be creative and daring - you'll find a man.