A week or so ago, I was talking to my friend. She's still taking her cancer treatments, but has a new problem. So many people are cooking meals for her and her family that the freezer is full. "And dessert every where. Who eats dessert every night?" Ahem. But I listened, and what I heard was that she is in the midst of a loving community, so loving that she really doesn't need more dinner or dessert – although I'm having trouble accepting the latter. "The only other thing I know how to do is bake bread," I said. Read next feature >