It Allows You to Hide
People who lean on texting hide behind their words and could be creating a false narrative. Unless you start to hang out more, you will never discover the truth of what a person is like and even then, it's hard to tell. The quality of the conversation can be hard to gauge because you can't observe their expressions or mannerisms. "People can hide in a text message," Bela Gandhi, the founder of Smart Dating Academy revealed to cnn.com. When you talk to someone on the phone or meet them that's when their genuine personality begins to surface. "Hearing someone's voice tells you if they are positive or negative, or enthusiastic about life. The voice conversation is very important," she added. If you want to know what is going on in the relationship, start making a point to physically connect to uncover who they are.