You've been dreaming about it since you were a child. You want a huge wedding, one with a beautiful dress and hundreds of flowers. You plan to put so much time and energy into your big day, and can't wait to walk down the aisle.
However are you planning to put this much energy into your marriage after the celebration is over? If you're like most couples now-a-days, the answer is probably not. Getting married is a big deal for everyone, but more often than not we confuse marriage with the wedding. While marriage means the coming together of two individuals through a bond that will last a lifetime, the wedding signifies the ceremony which merely makes the bond official. While the excitement of a wedding is undeniable, marriage can be a different ball game altogether.
Here are a few reasons why you must focus your time on marriage rather than the wedding.