There is a feeling of being unbalanced and unsettled. As you look at your photos of a more happier time, you wonder what is going on with your relationship? Maybe we stopped giving our spouse the best or maybe you both became complacent and stopped caring. We all make mistakes in our relationships and most of the time they are not fatal. When we do make errors, we often overlook them and never correct our course. Marriage is hard all around. It's easy to dwell on the bad when you don't know where to start. Laura Wasser, celebrity divorce lawyer shared her thoughts on the matter with the Huffington Post. "If couples can weather the storms, communicate and accept that marriage is not always wine and roses they are far more likely to stay together.” Sorry for that bad news, but truthfully, a relationship is never sunshine every day and the sex will not always be like it used to be. However, if you are wondering what is going on with your marriage, you can reset your course by avoiding these fatal mistakes.