7 Words that Will Change the Way You See Your Marriage

It’s important that value is expressed in your marriage and that you and your spouse both feel cherished. While most marriages survive by two people simply holding on, marriages can thrive when husbands and wives learn to treasure one another. Going out of your way to notice your spouse, appreciate them, honor them and encourage them will bring light and life to your marriage. There are certain words and phrases that we can use in our marriages to show our spouses how deeply we value them. While we generally think of these as just words, they have the ability to change our outlook on our relationship. These words tell them that they matter and you care. These small language tweaks have the power to strengthen, even save your marriage. Here are seven words that will change the way you see your marriage.

Thank You

Saying thank you is a key to a happy marriage. According to a study out of the University of Georgia, couples who express gratitude for each other during good times are buffered from the withering effects of lousy times. Saying “thank you” to your partner is so powerful, in fact, that couples who make it a habit are less affected by poor communication and other marital stressors. Saying “thank you” tells your partner that you appreciate what they’ve said or done. It shows gratitude. Many of us have trouble accepting compliments, even from our spouses. We tend to qualify and clarify, often demeaning ourselves in the process. When your spouse compliments you, simply say, “thank you.”