They Destroy His Confidence
Unrealistic expectations can destroy your husband’s confidence. Although men tend to be stronger physically, women have the advantage when it comes to verbal acumen. Women are talkers and have learned how to use words for the most effectiveness. In the heat of an argument, women are adept at brandishing the sharpest words in order to shame, demean and belittle their man. Words are like toothpaste. Once they are out, there is no getting them back in. Regardless of how sorry you are afterward, the damage has been done. All the sorries in the world will never take back the string of your angry words, once you have unleashed them on your husband. When your husband isn’t meeting your expectations, rather than use your words as a weapon, use them as a healing balm to comfort, encourage and uplift your husband.