In order for any level of business to be sustained, energy must be exerted or the business will ultimately fail. This is also true of a relationship. If left on its own, it will flounder and result in the disconnection of the partners.
Turning a business or relationship around requires even more energy, not the same energy that sustains it. Being determined to manifest the vision you want can result in an increased sense of curiosity. What is actually working well between you as a couple? What strategies are you using that aren’t working to sustain connection?
As the smart, successful person you are, you realize that if a strategy isn’t working then it’s time to change it and try something new, or the results will continue to be the same. That same relentless determination that you use in business can be beneficial in turning around even the most difficult relationship challenges.
Be sure to remember the wisdom of your heart. If you are hurt, bitter, or resentful about what you are not getting, very little will change. Having heartfelt understanding for people is an earmark of a great leader. Your intuition and heart will trump your head in helping you to create the results that you want at home. What’s the truth… what’s real? Not the old story that might be in your head. Find that and your success is inevitable.