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You do not trust that they will support you or always have your back.
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You actively try to avoid spending time with your spouse.
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Neither of you fight fair.
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You all have an unhealthy or infrequent intimate life.
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One or both of you frequently resort to playing games or “keeping score”.
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You avoid discussing the future of your relationship and are not on the same page.
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You keep secrets from each other and avoid talking about hard topics.
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You never make compromises for the relationship.
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You do not hold each other accountable in the relationship.
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