Drawing comparisons to other people and other relationships is unhealthy, unproductive and can lead to unrealistic expectations. When we point out our differences, in particular in regards to our husbands, it can ruin their confidence and confuse them. God brought the two of you together in the most unique way, no two stories are alike. What’s great is that you can achieve an even better relationship than you can imagine in your comparison of others—put God first and He will guide the way.
“Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear it.” Ephesians 4:29