Once-upon-a-time marriage was the norm in America, but a shift started and curtailed the velocity starting in 1976. Today, single people make up the majority, which is strange because online dating services, dating applications and technology, should've beefed up the number of married couples in the nation. “It’s actually probably easier to meet people now than ever before,” Eric Klinenberg, a Sociology Professor at New York University and the author of Going Solo: The Extraordinary Rise and Surprising Appeal of Living Alone shared with pri.org. “But one big issue is people today are really looking for their soul mate," he added. "And they’re not going to compromise.” Years ago, there was a rush to get married and to have a family. Now people are still growing up in their 30s and living at home with their parents. Yet, for some men, dating can be harsher than living in their mom's basement. Dating is an ungracious world to navigate and some men are not charmed by its complexities. When it comes to dating there are certain women who make it harder. Ladies, if you can't understand where all the men are, check out the following reasons why some guys are remaining out of the game.