"I’m more useful to God as a married couple than I am as a single person. So if I ever want to maximize my purpose, I better start dating."
Truth: God doesn’t look at you like a tool to be used but a beloved child to be loved. Dating and pursuing marriage should never be primarily seen as a matter to be more useful. Yes, Kingdom-work is always a part of God’s purpose for our lives but we need to be secure in who we are as well-loved children first...so we minister from a place of rest, not work.