5 Telltale Signs He's Not Ready to Marry You l Signs He Doesn't Want to Marry l Relationship Advice on Dating

Despite the romantic movies of how dating is supposed to be something that is flawless and takes little work, it takes a ton of effort to keep it afloat and to succeed. This is why the vetting process is so vital in finding the right guy. However, the notion of marriage takes little effort! Winifred M. Reilly is a family therapist and shared with the Huffington Post there are ways to finds out if your guy is not ready for marriage. "If the one you’re with is looking for an easy, no effort relationship, you are with someone who isn’t going to be a true partner when the going gets rough." Outside of this, he might be selfish, wants to be financially secure or he may be afraid of getting married. Here are 5 telltale signs that he is not ready to marry you and if you should move on.

He Offers Noncommittal Answers

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A friend moved to another city to be with her boyfriend. Afterward, after 2 years of dating, she asked him if they were going to get married. His answer? He told her that he wasn't sure yet. She had a choice, to remain on the hook or to move on. When the ultimatums didn't work, she broke it off and moved on after a rough year of many tears. The good news is she met her husband who was totally invested in their future and wanted to make things happen. This was a big difference from her last relationship. What can you learn from this gal's dilemma? It's pretty simple, don't accept any noncommittal answers as you can't wait around forever. In the meantime, you could miss your soulmate while you are waiting around for Mr. Wrong.