5 Hints You’re Dating A User

5 Hints You're Dating A User

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There’s a fine line between helping a person out and simply being used in a one sided relationship. A “user” is only interested in answering one question…”What’s in it for me?” It’s not always easy to spot them. They hide behind the façade of charisma, warmth, and loads of personality. In the beginning, they are very attentive and interested in learning about you. A user will probe for information about your status to determine where they fit in and how much of your resources they can take for themselves. Resources can be time, money, or peace of mind. Take care to date carefully keeping an eye out for the warning signs. Defend yourself against these five tricks.