You have different goals.

Having different priorities and plans can create friction in the relationship. The problem comes in when this grows over time and people end of drifting apart. Also, people stay together for the sake of the family, and what the in-laws want. As a couple you make that decision, we are responsible for our own happiness, and outsiders need to make the adjustments if there is a breakup.

Finally, divorce can really take a lot of you mentally and physically. It is a decision that should not be taken lightly. However, take a pause and a step back from the relationship and think if the relationship really constitutes a divorce with the 7 tips given. It is a personal choice that needs to be carefully thought out. Seek out professional advice and plan accordingly. They [lawyer] might ask you to at the pros and cons of ending the relationship, and then you can weigh your options.