Date fellow believers.
If you want to transform your relationship through God’s design, you should be searching for someone who shares your beliefs and values. The Second Epistle to the Corinthians speaks much to this, especially Chapter 6:14, “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?” If the person you’re dating isn’t grounded in Christ, their thoughts and actions will only separate you from Christ and take you further into darkness. Without a Christian spouse, one of two things will happen: you will drift away from God or your spouse will become your center focus, ahead of God. Both of these aren’t good.