7 Things the Right Relationship Teaches You

Who you're with becomes more important than where you are.

While it is vital to continue “dating” our partner even after we are committed to them, whether it be going out to dinner or planning a weekend away, the things that we do and places we go, become a little less important.

They become less important and give way to realizing that who we are with, is more important than where we are. When we are with the right person, it would be more tempting to live in a cottage with them, than in a mansion without them. (Well, maybe…but you know what I mean). Every area of your life will be enhanced by their presence, and you will always want them around to share your experiences with. Big or small.

You can put someone else first and still be happy.

When we are single, it may be difficult to imagine a life where we, at times, put someone else’s happiness ahead of our own. Of course, some people are like this naturally and it’s not as difficult as it can be for others. The difference is that when you do find the right person, your perspective on this topic changes.

You want to do things for them that make them happy. You want to listen to how their day went. You want to take part in what they enjoy even if you’re not that interested yourself.

You will realize the best kind of happiness is when you are happy because you’ve made someone else happy.

You can still live your own life.

I can’t tell you how many people I’ve spoken to who have wanted to continue learning, growing, exploring, and improving – as they did when they were single, but their partner would discourage it. This could be for a million different reasons, though I find frequently it may be due to personal insecurities being projected onto you, but that is a whole other article.

The right relationship will show you that while you both become a “we,” there are still two thriving individuals present in the arrangement. You will have your own life, and they will have theirs.

The right partner will support and encourage your journey to become who you want to be – but still love and accept the person you are today.

Nobody is perfect, not even you (and that's okay).

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The right relationship isn’t just about things being great all the time. They won’t be. You are two different people from different upbringings with different perspectives on the world. It is only natural to find yourself in disagreement at times. It is only natural to find yourself in the wrong at times. The good news is – the right person will never discourage you or make you feel bad about it.

Nobody will ever be perfect, but that’s how we learn. The right person will help teach you new things in and about life, as you do for them as well. You will grow together as individuals, and as a couple – strengthening your bond as you go along.