Accusing You of Cheating
Strange as it sounds, a cheating spouse may start accusing you of infidelity. He may suddenly seem jealous of your male friends when there was never an issue before. Out of the blue, she might start quizzing you about whether or not your girl friends are really just friends.
A straying spouse has a guilty conscience. He knows what he is doing is wrong, and he knows that he is going to hurt you. This can lead him to project what he is feeling onto you. She might also unconsciously recognize opportunities for an affair that she might have taken if she were in your shoes. She knows that she would have yielded to temptation and, thus, thinks that you might as well.
The accusations of cheating leave you looking to prove your cheating spouse wrong which deflects suspicion off her. A cheater’s accusations of adultery also make it seem like they value the relationship and would never stray themselves. Sadly, this is normally the complete opposite of the truth.