Love Grows, Infatuation Comes Without Warning
Love grows and all growth takes time. Romantic infatuation may arise suddenly and without warning. When you are infatuated, you are often impulsive. You become so quickly attracted to each other that you make quick and permanent plans to marry before you put time, work and commitment in making sure you can keep the promises you make with one another. On the flip slide, with infatuation, just as quickly as your feelings showed up, they can go away. If it’s infatuation, that foundation of love is missing. Slow down, do you “homework” in getting to know each other. In many situations, over the course of time, you can tell if love is really growing or know if your infatuation has grown into mature love for each other.