How to Be a Happy Mommy l Tips for Moms l How to Be a Happy Parent l A Guide to Parenting

Why was the baby more put together than this mother? In the reflection of the car window, her hair was in disarray, face was shallow, and the shirt was worn already that week, or not even washed, who can remember these days. Meanwhile, a perfectly dressed baby was wearing Juicy Couture, polished, and drinking organic formula. The situation for mom was coffee, and noshing on tortilla chips and eating Friday's frozen entrees when time permitted. As far as the overall picture, it was not looking good. Mothers in general want to cry as they look at the sink of dirty dishes, unfolded laundry, and look at themselves in the mirror wondering “What the heck happened to me?” Well, it happened and you know what, it is fine to change your life and it is OK to not put your kids first all the time. If you are having dinner at a drive thru and the kids are eating healthy, there needs to be a change. If you are wondering if taking care of yourself is selfish, it is not. It is fine to think about yourself. Here are 6 reasons why.

Choose Better Clothing

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“You need to buy new lounging pants,” a husband said. He must have meant yoga pants, but, surely they are not raggedy, this mom was thinking. Even if the pants are worn-out, the point is you need to take the time to dress yourself. The baby has the hook up--there is nothing with holes or worn-out fabrics in her closet. Who knew that Ralph Lauren made newborn clothes? Your closet paints another picture, and is not organized. Lay out your clothes the night before, just like you would do for your children. This will save so much time from stressing out about what to wear. Also, it will prevent you from just picking any old thing. This includes your “lounging pants,” or leggings. Wearing an outfit that you love will make you feel good.

Remain Cool

Going with the flow is not a forte for many people who just want everything perfect. Moms know this is not always easy when there is a cough or a sniffle. They are thinking that a visit to the pediatrician is in order! How can one be laid back with your kids? Not everything is an emergency, but how we react to stress. Children are strong and resilient unless they have an underlying health condition. "It's best to brush up on basic first aid and keep your medicine cabinet stocked with age-appropriate medicine and bandages. If you are relaxed and strong in the face of crisis, your child will be calmer," SheKnows.com reported. When you look at everything as not being an emergency, you will be equipped to handle things better when they get a scratch, or with the bigger things. Practice being calm and to not overreact, it can save you so much unnecessary grief.