What Happens When We Over Do for Our Children by Janet Lehman l Parenting Advice l Parenting Tips l How to Raise Well Rounded Children

What Happens When We Over Do for Our Children

Facing challenges are great opportunities for kids to grow and mature. Yes, it’s painful to observe our child going through difficult times. As parents, we want to make this stop. Our tendency is to want to jump in and fix things. But, this is when it’s most important that we step back and not step in. Take on the role of teacher and coach, supporting your child through the difficulty, while letting them discover their own capabilities.

Remember, learning to manage obstacles in life makes us all stronger people. If we step in, we stop the learning process and run the risk of stunting our child’s growth. We prevent our child from developing the courage needed to try new things, even when it is hard or they might not succeed. Here are four things that could happen if we over do for our children.