10 excuses that turn illicit fantasies into regret

Excuse 7

If loving you is wrong, I don’t wanna be right!

"Love is not only blind," writes Etheridge in is The Fantasy Fallacy: Exposing the Deeper Meaning Behind Sexual Thoughts. it’s also deaf and dumb. Or more accurately, feeling like you might be “in love” causes you to see only what you want to see. Hear only what you want to hear. Say only what you want to say. Even though you know in your head that this relationship is so wrong, your heart convinces you, “Oh, but it feels so right!” Wake up. Love is not a feeling. It’s a commitment to truth (1 Cor. 13:6) and to your spouse’s highest good (Eph. 5). So if this “fantasy relationship” isn’t good for your spouse, it’s especially not good for you.