Let Images of Love Inspire You
Tired of dating disappointments and waiting around for Mr. Right? Try this Perfect Date Treasure Map to help bring true love to your door.
By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
Dating, for many of us, marks the start of the relationships that change our lives. By dreaming the perfect date, you can help manifest the perfect mate. Begin by finding one awesome image of a beautiful couple in a pose that you can relate to. It should be something that represents the love you long for. Find an image so delicious and inspiring that it helps you believe in love. Place it in a frame and let it guide you.
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Relationship Arts and Crafts
Relationship Arts and Crafts
Prepare to create “A Perfect Date Treasure Map.” Gather supplies before you start. You’ll need: large piece of oak tag or poster board; scissors; stick glue; and magazines, artwork, pictures, images, saying, headlines that evoke the kind of love life you want to share. This is your visual interpretation of the ideal mate. It is a light-hearted and fun way to create a “visual prayer.”
Contemplate the Perfect Date
Contemplate the Perfect Date
It is always powerful to visualize – i.e. see pictures or movies in your head – but it is just as important to get a sense of what makes your perfect date superb. Give some thought to what you would do, where you go, what you wear, how you feel. Think about the kind of person you would most like to spend that time with.
Design a Visual Prayer
Design a Visual Prayer
Go at creating your treasure map in earnest. It truly is the first step to manifesting the real thing in your life. Begin by cutting out photos, pictures, headlines, sayings from magazines and other sources. They should be couples in great places and fabulous restaurant, in terrific clothes, looking like they are having the time of their life. Include couples that are happy and loving, in the way you want to be with your date . Include images of couples smooching, dancing, holding hands, laughing, and enjoying one another’s company.
Create Your Treasure Map
Create Your Treasure Map
Sit down on a floor or at a big table with all your pictures and have a blast creating your Perfect Date Treasure Map, putting it together like personalized collage. As you mount all the wonderful images, begin to imagine – and sense -- that you are literally constructing a blue print for the perfect date. Include anything that would make it perfect for you. As you are doing this, approach it as if this is already true. Feel it happening in your life. As a finishing touch, you can even trim it with lace or tiny hearts.
Admire Your New Treasure
Admire Your New Treasure
Prop up your treasure map in a place that you can enjoy it. The ritual of creating this visual prayer will begin to percolate the energies of love and romance in your heart. Revel in it. Continue to enjoy wonderful music and sit back and relax, enjoying the sight and smell of the flowers and the flicker of candlelight. Bask in the warmth of possibility . Everything you’ve done has been a powerful statement of your intention.
Closing Blessing
Closing Blessing
Thank your Divine Matchmakers for inspiring the ritual, and for ongoing support in finding the perfect romance for you. Take a piece of chocolate from the altar. Savor it in your mouth as you gaze at your treasure map and say: May romance be as sweet and tasty. Keep the treasure map in plain sight so that it may remind and inspire you.
Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway is moderator of The Soulmate Project and author Find Your Spiritual Soulmate and The Goddess Pages: A Divine Guide to Finding Love and Happiness (Llewellyn, 2008).