8 Crucial Mistakes to Avoid When Going After Your Goals By Elyse Gorman l Tips on Settign Goals l Achieving Goals

Don't Put Your Happiness on Hold

Many of us put our happiness on hold until a mythical day in the future when we will be slimmer, wealthier, more successful, much-adored and have ticked off a suitable number of goals. This is problematic for two reasons. Firstly, this day of finally "having it all" doesn't exist -- it's not an attainable reality, as you will always be giving birth to new desires and goals, and therefore the goal posts will always be moving. Secondly, it's critical to enjoy the journey towards your goals because the journey is all there really is -- the journey is life itself. This very moment that is happening right now is the only time you get to truly experience life itself in all of its beauty, power and glory.

Don't Lose Sight of the Bigger Picture

Have you ever started out on the journey towards a goal, project or dream feeling hugely inspired and excited, only to loose steam and throw in the towel? It could be because you've forgotten about your big picture reason for taking action -- the vision that you're working towards, and the sweet feelings of joy, fulfillment or accomplishment you will experience in abundance once you've finished. Keep reminders of your bigger vision close by. When you loose focus, pause to reflect on what it would feel like to have already achieved your goal or dream right now. Try to embody this feeling for a few minutes, and let it spark a new wave of motivation inside of you.